Second Chances

Do you believe in second chances?

I certainly do believe in second chances. There is always a second chance. We all deserve it, just as much as we all deserve happiness. But the truth is.. they rarely happen by chance.

We will never know how things could turn out..

As often said:

If you get a chance, TAKE IT.

If it changed your life, LET IT.

Nobody said, it would be easy.. just that it would be WORTH IT.

But how would you know if you already had that chance and you let it pass? Is there a third, fourth and fifth or so called unlimited chances? that I don't know the answer either. But we got EVERYDAY to make things RIGHT.

Giving the other person a second chance, is just as much giving yourself another one. Because you'll be giving the relationship another shot, and not the people involved. It's not a one person game.

People change. It's not an option. With time, they always do. That goes for you too. Given sufficient time, the other person would have changed for sure, but so would have you. The changed versions of both of you, might be a perfect match, or it might turn out worse. You'll be starting with past baggage, that slows down the path to change for the better, as you try not to evaluate yourself from the past. To not do the same mistakes, and to do the right thing. This stops you from moving on. So considerably more effort and understanding needs to be involved from both of you.

But if you think it's worth it, and in the long run, that's what makes you happy and content, you deserve this second chance.